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John and Jenn are like so many couples. When their church found out their marriage was in tatters, it came as a shock to everyone around them.
Many openly expressed dismay. They just couldn’t believe it.
On the outside looking in they were the perfect couple. They always smiled, held hands, hugged, and affirmed one another.
At home, it was something very different.
How does this happen and what is the solution?
We all have three areas of our lives:
- Public
- Private
- Secret
When any of these three is out of alignment with God’s truth, it causes chaos in our marriages.
For John and Jenn, they were faking it in their public life and were darn good at it.
At home, they fought like cats and dogs. The arguments became too much to bear as they spoke past one another.
If they were listening, they would have discovered there was the issue they were fighting about and then there was the REAL root cause.
In the secret recesses of John’s mind, he was feeling lonely, isolated, and disrespected by his wife. He never told Jenn. A part of him was embarrassed and ashamed. Still, in his own way, he was screaming for acknowledgment.
Unfortunately, Jenn couldn’t hear him. In her secret place, she felt abandoned, forgotten, and unseen.
While they weren’t saying what was happening in the secret part of their mind… But they were leaking it.
In some way, they both were having emotional affairs.
His emotional affair was with his golf buddies.
Her emotional affair was in confiding in friends, or perhaps even in another man who was taking the time to listen to her.
Both were so busy talking to others and speaking past one another that transparency, confidence, trust, and intimacy were gone.
There is a good ending to this story…
John and Jenn realized they didn’t have the tools or skills to overcome their challenge. I’m blessed to have worked with them to help them see what was really happening so that they could learn to emotionally re-connect.
Today, their marriage is thriving.
Your marriage can as well. You can have the marriage that you always wanted. It can be the real thing in the public, private, and secret parts of your life — Making you whole as you look to the author and perfecter of our faith… The Lord Jesus Christ.
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