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When you were first married, did you feel like you were on top of the world? You could share virtually anything with your spouse. They were the center of your world.
Over time, those feelings began to fade. At some point, conversations turned into misunderstandings, accusations, hurts, and pains. Things that wouldn’t normally set you off suddenly made you irate.
The way you began to look at and interact with your spouse changed. Sure, there are some good times. Yet, they don’t outweigh the constant fighting.
Perhaps you’re exhausted, cried out, frustrated beyond belief, and don’t know what to do.
Believe it or not, this isn’t uncommon. In fact, it’s normal.
The difference between a long happy marriage and one that ends in divorce is simple. It all comes down to communication.
When people feel they aren’t heard or understood, small things have a way of compounding without you knowing it’s happening.
So, how can you overcome these challenges?
You must become aware of how you and your spouse are experiencing one another, acquire the communication skills that will set your marriage on a positive path, and rediscover the joy and love the two of you share.
I get what you’re going through. Nicole and I have been married for over 31 years. In our first few years of marriage, we had a few rocky moments just like everyone else. It always centered around football.
I grew up playing football. I love everything about it. As a young man in my early 20s and newly married, I didn’t have any hobbies. I didn’t hang out with friends. I didn’t drink or put myself in compromising situations.
On Sunday afternoons from September to December, I just wanted to watch football.
Nicole couldn’t understand it. To her, there was more to life. She felt alone on Sundays but didn’t know how to communicate her feelings to me. Our conversations led to misunderstandings and hurt — All driven by miscommunication.
It took me time to figure out how to share with her how deeply I was committed to our marriage and how this was my only one thing on a Sunday a few months out of the year. Once I could assure her, she embraced my hobby.
I didn’t know what I was doing. That’s the truth. Still, if I had taken a different approach and allowed the misunderstanding and conflict to escalate, we could have gone to a bad place. Small things in our personalities or habits could have added to a massive problem and before you know it, the compounding issues layered on top of each other would have created an explosive situation.
I share this story more fully in the video below as well as offer a few suggestions that can help you.
You may feel your relationship is too far gone.
You may feel unheard, uncared for, abandoned, or lonely.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
All you need are some communication skills, tools, and an open heart and mind to restore your marriage. There is hope. Your relationship can be a safe place full of love, acceptance, and respect.
There is hope for your marriage!!!
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