Everyone has secrets. For some people, it’s embarrassing to share something personal or intimate or mistakes from the past. Even with a spouse. For others, they are ashamed of something they’ve done. Some even participate in sinful behaviors they know are wrong but choose to do it anyway — Indulging…

Have you ever stopped to question if your beliefs are the barrier preventing you from having the kind of marriage God intended for you? Do you have some deep beliefs about yourself, your spouse, or God that aren’t rooted in truth? Are the stories you’ve told yourself harming your marriage…

Okay, now that I’ve got your attention, the real question is, can a lack of sex ruin your marriage? There are days heavens know you have no single libido left, getting physical is the last thing you may want. Your whole body aches from head to toe and nothing you…

I hear it all the time… “The most important thing to me is my kids.” This is one of the most destructive ideas ever known to marriage. Why? Aren’t we supposed to take care of our kids? Aren’t we supposed to love our kids and provide for them? Absolutely. That’s…

When I met Joe, his marriage was on the rocks. He wasn’t sure if his 13-year marriage would survive any longer. He and his wife, Deanna, fought like cats and dogs. They couldn’t get through a conversation without it devolving into a big “thing.” What they didn’t know was this……

Pain and suffering. It’s a part of life. Ideally, the one place there shouldn’t be any of this is in your marriage. Yet, for millions of Americans, this isn’t the case. Couples hurt each other all of the time. The vast majority of the time it’s unintentional. Often times it’s…

Every couple has disagreements. Every couple fights. We’re often led to believe this isn’t good or healthy for our marriages, but that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Conflict can be a good thing if you have the right tools in your toolbag. Before I explain why conflict can be…

In a healthy marriage, your feelings should never feel like a debate. Yet, in my years of working with couples, I’ve seen far too many spouses treat each other like the enemy instead of teammates. How does a marriage devolve from a place of love to a battlefield where every…